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Bohu\u017eel v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b, a\u010d se to zd\u00e1 mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u011bkomu nesmysln\u00e9, je spole\u010dnost st\u00e1le pln\u00e1 p\u0159edsudk\u016f a d\u00e1vno zakotven\u00fdch […]","datePublished":"2018-08-01","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.goshico.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.goshico.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/670235c08005d2f1b80a3d56a421809661de47ce0289bd1c93d0120f6ef211a4?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/670235c08005d2f1b80a3d56a421809661de47ce0289bd1c93d0120f6ef211a4?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"goshico.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.goshico.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a322661_w2610_t1534397543.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.goshico.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a322661_w2610_t1534397543.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.goshico.cz\/utok-rozhodne-neni-nejlepsi-obrana\/","wordCount":422,"articleBody":"Ka\u017ed\u00e9ho z n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo n\u011bkdy urazil. Bohu\u017eel v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b, a\u010d se to zd\u00e1 mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u011bkomu nesmysln\u00e9, je spole\u010dnost st\u00e1le pln\u00e1 p\u0159edsudk\u016f a d\u00e1vno zakotven\u00fdch stereotyp\u016f. Stereotyp s\u00e1m o sob\u011b nen\u00ed nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho. V mnoh\u00e9m usnad\u0148uje orientaci ve sv\u011bt\u011b. St\u00e1le se tedy objevuj\u00ed skupiny, kter\u00e9 svoje \u017eivotn\u00ed postoje zakl\u00e1daj\u00ed na nen\u00e1visti k n\u011bkter\u00fdm lidem nebo alespo\u0148 vehementn\u011b vyjad\u0159uj\u00ed sv\u00e9 v\u00fdhrady. Spole\u010dnosti samoz\u0159ejm\u011b oded\u00e1vna stoj\u00ed na ur\u010dit\u00fdch norm\u00e1ch a hodnot\u00e1ch, ale n\u011bco takov\u00e9ho, jako je normalita, se jen t\u011b\u017eko definuje. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed si p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed nen\u00e1vist jen v podob\u011b v\u00e1lky. Ano, to je rozhodn\u011b zlo, kter\u00e9 je velmi skute\u010dn\u00e9 a viditeln\u00e9. Spousta lid\u00ed si ale neuv\u011bdomuje, \u017ee i drobn\u011b nevhodn\u00e1 pozn\u00e1mka m\u016f\u017ee ubl\u00ed\u017eit. Nar\u00e1\u017eky na to, jak kdo vypad\u00e1, jsou nevhodn\u00e9 od kohokoliv a kdykoliv. Ve vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama se projevuje velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl mezi mu\u017eem a \u017eenou. To v\u0161ak plat\u00ed i u reakc\u00ed na n\u011bkter\u00e1 pal\u010div\u00e1 t\u00e9mata. P\u0159i h\u00e1dce \u017eena mnohdy reaguje citliv\u011bji a intenzivn\u011bji ne\u017e mu\u017e, ale to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt t\u0159eba kv\u016fli hormon\u00e1ln\u00ed nerovnov\u00e1ze. V n\u011bkter\u00fdch obdob\u00edch jsou post\u011b \u017eeny citliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. A mu\u017ei je nap\u0159\u00edklad uraz\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee je ozna\u010d\u00ed za hysterick\u00e9. Jedin\u00e1 obrana proto jak\u00fdmkoliv nevhodn\u00fdm nar\u00e1\u017ek\u00e1m, kter\u00e1 funguje v\u017edy, je zachovat stoick\u00fd klid. T\u00edm dokonale rozhod\u00edte ty, kte\u0159\u00ed se sna\u017e\u00ed rozhodit v\u00e1s. Nejen, \u017ee se ztrapn\u00ed u\u017e jen t\u00edm, kdy\u017e nar\u00e1\u017eku pronesou, ale bu\u010fte si jisti, \u017ee v\u00e1s nechaj\u00ed na pokoji, proto\u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 argumenty nikdy nem\u011bli a m\u00edt nebudou. V\u0161eobecn\u011b uzn\u00e1vanou normou by snad m\u011blo b\u00fdt jen to, aby se k sob\u011b v\u0161ichni chovali tak, jak by cht\u011bli, aby se k nim chovali ostatn\u00ed. A je\u0161t\u011b jednu d\u016fle\u017eitou v\u011bc je t\u0159eba m\u00edt na pam\u011bti: Ur\u00e1\u017e\u00ed v\u017edycky jen ten, kdo je s\u00e1m nespokojen\u00fd. A kdy\u017e lidi tak r\u00e1di uva\u017euj\u00ed o tom, co je a co nen\u00ed norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. Ur\u010dit\u011b by m\u011blo b\u00fdt norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, aby se v\u0161ichni mohli c\u00edtit tak, jak cht\u011bj\u00ed, pokud t\u00edm nenaru\u0161uj\u00ed normalitu n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.6\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"\u00datok rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed nejlep\u0161\u00ed obrana","item":"https:\/\/www.goshico.cz\/utok-rozhodne-neni-nejlepsi-obrana\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]